If you back feed and do not have a net meter, you will be paying for what you are supplying to the grid!
The meter only knows the current is flowing, it doesn't know you are sending it or receiving it.
So don't back feed. The best you can hope for is slowing down your grid meter to at or near zero.
That's only on some cases. Some new meters detect power flow direction, if you're not signed up for net metering you just won't get paid for your export, it won't charge you for your export as if it was usage.
as always YMMV depending on your meter.