You don't get it yet, but I will explain this more clearly so maybe you will catch on. On the AC power supply side of this vehicle, there is 2000 watts of power available. This was designed to provide the 2000 watts continuously from all the information I have found including an interview with the Ford On Board Power engineer. This information is out there, you just have to dig for it. As for surge rating, it's probably in your owner's manual.
If you have the optional 7.4kw version like the 2021 model has, then it was designed to provide 7400 watts continuously.
In other words, as long as you use the AC side of the system, you can draw the full amount of watts continuously at 100% duty cycle if you desire. I've tried to steer you in the right direction, it is quite simple, you use the AC side of the On Board Power system to transfer power from the tow vehicle to power accessories and charge the house battery bank. It was designed for it's rated capacity and 2000 watts is plenty of available power compared to attempting to charge with a DC to DC charger at 60 amps (which is about the largest DC to DC I've seen). never mind the cable size needed. You won't need to override the PCM control of the smart alternator either, the PCM will control output based upon what the On Board System demands.
This is the easiest and highest power output and even the cheapest.