I was thinking about this: Why wouldn't the BMS support a parallel connection?
Just a guess: If using two 100Ah batteries in parallel, with a 100A BMS, when all is good they will share the load (200A max load).
But, when one BMS cuts out because of low voltage, the other BMS will have to handle all the 200A loads. That's twice the rated amperage of these 100A BMSs.
I would suspect that in order to properly do parallel, they would need to put a higher rated BMS to handle these cases.
As reality shows, two identical batteries in parallel almost always will charge/discharge at a bit different rate. At least just enough to get one of them to cut out earlier than the other.
In my non-expert opinion, if you need to parallel just for Ah capacity and not for doubling the load capacity, you should be able to do parallel. For example, if you make sure your loads never exceed 80% of a single BMS's rating , then you can connect the batteries in parallel. You will get twice the running time. When one battery cuts out, the other will handle a load that is still under its maxium rated amperage.
In short if you have only 80Ah loads in total, it should be possible to parallel.