I just couldn't establish if you're mocking the nanny state or embracing it. The latter it is. People really should be arrested for not screwing down their panels, and the idea of gluing panels implies some level of stupidity that would make gluing wheels on rational - gotcha. Facts aren't your thing. Feelings are what matter.
Having some experience in the aviation industry (27 years), I can safely say that your implied faith in "aircraft builders" is misplaced as a concept. Do you see how many airworthiness directives come out on a weekly basis to identify and correct safety issues? Have you heard of the 737max? Have you heard of the 787 and its lithium batteries? The model of aircraft I owned had 3 design and manufacturing flaws that claimed lives. Fortunately for me, the aircraft was already 33 years old and had already killed enough people to sort out the flaws. Note that none of those flaws were associated with the bonded wing skins.
The tasks of designing an aircraft, the manufacturing methods, the processes and the labor to execute it is infinitely more sensitive to stupidity or bad decisions than your average DIY schmuck willing to follow written directions installing a solar panel on their roof.
How does that make you feel?
Screw down a panel, and I can almost guarantee you I can personally rip it off one corner at a time. Properly tape one down with VHB, and I'll probably slip a disc, rip a part of the roof off with the panel (the bond will be stronger than the roof) or put my foot through the roof because it can't take the downward force.
Opinions aren't facts. Because you don't understand something, and it scares you, it doesn't mean the solution that feels safer is correct.