D, my advise is worth what you pay for it, lol a little dry humor. Advise One Step at a time.. hooking up the BMS to the Battery will not fix the Grid Only use, First my advice, get the Controller to work with the Battery, and correct settings, then BMS the Battery to the Controller, At moment what your saying is You do not have the Battery BMS connected to the Controller.., you have the Battery connected to the Controller and the Grid to the Controller,, Ok, so Breaker the Grid, the controller should see the Battery as the only source, and put a load on the house with your Grid Off line, Just Solar and see what the SA shows you.. in PV generation,, Then turn off the PV Solar breaker and Grid, the Controller should go to the Battery and show Battery Discharge.. . Also if your using Solar Assistant, and you have a USB to rs485 device, you can connect it to the SA and forget the Controller, you will get more details of the BMS Battery.. ..
Again one thing at a time..need more feed back,
A. Turn Grid Off, and Solar PV panels. Just Battery, the Controller should provide the Load for the house and the LCDisplay should show you the
battery -14.6 amp discharge and battery volts, this is an Example I put here..
B. let us know what you get ??
C. Then leave Grid off line, put PV online - let us know what you get on Controller Display,, It looks like your using Solar Assistant ??
D. Then if you put Grid back online, currently from what you said the controller Just uses the Grid, to supply load
Need more info from you..