With a heat pump water heater in heat pump mode, it will take longer than 20 to 30 minutes for hot water. You could use the electric element for faster recovery, if you have the power to do so.
Ja, this is why I don't have one.
Some people don't want smart devices. Some find value in them. I'm not interested in home automation. But I do see some value in the ability to change water heater temp, turn it on/off, turn on devices with smart plugs and run my heat pump mini splits remotely.
Not knockin ya, well, maybe jerkin the chain a little, but I wonder how long you will find that interesting enough to get the roi.
I can manage my system and loads according to my choice.
Of course, I've found there is often diminishing interest as time goes on, but there is always some level of control we will always want to be able to excercise at will. If there were not people like you pushing the edge of the envelope, we wouldn't get all the fun toys to play with!
Last year we used less than 3% of total Kwh for the house from the grid. Meanwhile, we increased usage by about 15% by switching to heat pump tech for both heating and cooling.
That last few percent is always the most troublesome. Todays heat pumps are downright stunning for HVAC. I've mentioned in a few other threads, I'd go all electric if I went completely off-grid even in a northern area, and just have some backup via propane or wood. I just wouldn't want to crimp my lifestyle to get that 3%. I can't wait for summer, I added battery last fall, and made some overall improvements, my only grid usage the last 2 months was ~ $0.50 during a firmware upgrade. Pretty sure 60KWH is not going to make it thru the 100 degree nights. Bottom line is always what does it take to be grid-free.
I expect to see an increase again in the next year as we moved to the heat pump water heater and added another heat pump mini split. My idea is to generate as much as I can and use it when I can but not exceed system generation and use power from the grid. Some might not be interested in maximizing yield and solar power usage. That is fine.
You are down to shaving basis points, ROI gets worse and worse as you invest more money, so you've opted for heavier handed management to accomplish the goal. Nothing wrong with that. I think we are all about production and usage, just more around what we are willing to do to get there. I'm awed you are willing to get this creative! I'm sure it's something that brings you pleasure and satisfaction to see it come to fruition. That is what traveling thru life is all about! If you ain't having any fun why bother?