Depends on your household size and usage patterns.
It is not unreasonable to run all of the things you listed simultaneously in large households.
If it's just you, you can make your own decisions.
If you have a significant other,
they make all the decisions.
If you are going full off-grid, you will need a big honking inverter to support that use case.
Or you could do what lots of us here do, invert for normal loads, use grid for the big ones.
Not off-grid, but only a good house backup. Or just partially off-grid to lower bills.
In my house, for example:
All 120V circuits can run from inverter, along with 240V well and septic pumps. This is to handle week-long outages.
I changed over to a 120V GE Combo washer/dryer, and that works great on the inverter, no 240V needed.
In a pinch, I can move my HVAC (with soft start) over to the inverters as well, because summer outages require A/C.
I explicitly left the kitchen oven and old clothes dryer (not needed anymore) not powered from the inverters.
I would have had to double my initial purchase costs to cover those.