fafrd, This might do what you are looking for.
This is a 1000 watt that will accept 22 to 65 volts DC and drives 1120 volt out. So you just put one on each leg of the 120/240 split phase. No Autotransformer needed. Each one will just limit it's leg to zero export. It is meant to work direct from a solar panel, but reading the reviews, there are some people running it from a battery bank. I have not used these, so I have no idea how good they might be. You may need to add some kind of timer control to keep it from running down the batteries overnight.
Hedges, I know what you mean. The later time peak rate is totally a "Stick it to Solar" money grab. But thanks to my battery bank now, I will just zero out my meter during the peak rate time, no matter when they set it. If solar production is low, I just charge off the grid and make them buy it back at twice the price in the evening. Oops, did I say that? In reality, with just a useable 15 KWHs of storage, I have yet to battery export more than the solar generated on any day. And I am not "exporting" much at all lately. When the sun is up, I am charging so export never exceeds 1,000 watts. And in the evening, I have the battery pushing 1,400 watts into my panel, but the house is using most of it. For the last few colder days, with my furnace kicking on, my export from battery tops out less than 500 watts, totaling maybe 1.8 KWH back to the grid during the 5 hour peak rate time.
I also agree, even with so many of my neighbors having solar now, with many of their systems bigger than mine, we just self powering a few blocks. We are not pushing back to the sub station, let alone back to the generating plants. Except for having to manually set my XW-Pro for now, I am putting the least demand on the grid of anyone around me. Since I do not need my A/C n this cold weather, my draw from the grid never tops 2,000 watts, and my feed back to the grid never tops 1,000 watts. With 8 more panels and 50% more battery, I could go off grid. But that would work the batteries a lot harder, and increase my cost over time with shorter battery life. My battery bank is working great for now, going from 85% down to 45% every evening, and charging back up to 85% the next morning to afternoon off of the sun. It was cool and sunny all day, so even in December, my 16 panels produced 16.9 KWHs from 7:30 am to 4:15 pm. That is a solid 3.5 "Sun Hours". Peak output hit 3,100 watts at 12:15 pm.
I am stuck on NEM 2.0 but I have to admit, the NBC's are not too bad at this point. It was just over $7.00 for Nov. 18 - Dec. 17. The power I used cost me another $43.00 making the bill $50.44 for 252.9 KWH. $0.1994 per KWH including all taxes and NBC's etc. I used more off peak power, but they credited me for $11.60 for the $0.42 mid peak power I sent back to them in the evening with the battery. In the same time period in 2018 before the solar went in, I consumed 720 KWHs compared to the 253 KWHs now. That is 65% of my power being supplied by solar now. Once I get on the "Prime D" rate for having the battery bank, it should take my cost down from 20 cents to 15 cents per KWH. And just as I calculated before, I need 50% more solar to go zero grid, or off grid.