Can you explain that first statement about the relay? I don't have one on my rig
Some modern converters such as the IOTA do not have a relay, they are a true multistage battery charger and power source, the load side and the battery do not need to be seperated. If you power them up and they do not “see“ a battery in the circuit they come up as a regulated power supply, if they do see a battery they do come up as a multistage battery charger and will charge the battery and power the loads at the same time. The other design with the relay does have seperate outputs for battery charging which is very limited (3 amps maybe) and the regulated power output 35, 45 amps or more.
There are advantages of both types....
The units that have a relay will have a lower output voltage on the coach output which will not be affected by the higher voltages needed to charge the battery but are limited to maybe a 3 amp battery charge at maximum
Units such as the IOTA converters have a voltage sense function which will actually “see” the battery condition and will automatically select the correct mode and start in bulk charge, adsorb charge, or float charge depending on battery state of charge. The big advantage of this type is if you have seriously run down the batteries they will use the full amperage capability of the unit to bring the battery up to voltage....
Personally i use the IOTA brand units as they can and will correctly diagnosis the battery condition and be in the correct stage.......bulk, adsorb, or float....or in the case of no battery will come up as a regulated power supply at “float voltage” where the older units have only a trickle charge function.
If you go out and do dry camping away from the power grid and run your batteries very low the generator run time will be greatly reduced by the full output of the “IOTA” type of converter as opposed to the trickle charger found in the older units.