Hello everyone. I am in the late stages of building an offroad camper trailer, so I can take my family on some adventures.

Now that I've got most of the hard work done, I'm looking at my design for the electrical system inside the trailer. It's getting down to crunch time as we want to go on vacation yet this year, so I don't have as much time as I would like to over-research everything. I've read several threads and feel like I'm close, but there are still several things I am not sure about.
I am wanting to pull power off the 7pin connector hot 12V to charge a LiTime 100 Ah battery in the rear of the trailer. I would put the battery in a tongue box, but I want the flexibility of being able to haul a dirtbike up front on a carrier. After researching a bunch, I am leaning towards using the Redarc BCDC1212S which is a 12 amp DC to DC battery charger with a 40 amp solar charge controller built in. I also thought about using either the Victron 12/12-9 or 12/12-18 DC to DC with a Victron MPPT 100/30 or 100/50 solar charge controller, but thought the 9 amp was too little and 18 amp too much for the 10ish gauge hot 12V wire from the truck. I currently only have a EcoFlow 160 W portable solar panel, but some day after the littles are grown, I may take off the rooftop tent and mount solar panels on the roof rack.
Anyway, I will only be powering a few interior and exterior LED lights, a Maxxair fan, and a small water pump for an external shower. I do not have need for an inverter, and the 12V Dometic fridge will be inside the truck, powered by an EcoFlow River 2 Pro. So I feel that 100 Ah LiFePO4 battery will be plenty and should last several days without charging.
So here is a sketch of my proposed electrical diagram. All of these items (battery, fuse block, DCDC charger, smart shunt) will be mounted in the rear galley area of the trailer.

I'm just a mechanical engineer, so I have enough electrical knowledge to be dangerous. I would very much appreciate if you experts could take a look at this and let me know what should be changed or done differently. Here are some of my questions:
1. I ran all my 7 pin trailer wiring in the frame (which was a pain!) back to a junction block at the rear of the trailer to wire my taillights. I ran a 10 gauge 12V hot wire (which gives 14.3V at the rear of the trailer with the truck running), but stupidly only ran a 12 gauge ground (-) wire from the 7 pin. Now, at the 7 pin juncture box mounted at the front of the trailer, I used a 12 gauge wire jumper on the ground wire to a bolt welded to the frame of the trailer to ground the trailer frame. I did not use the frame as a common ground for my tail and marker lights, but ran a 14 gauge ground (-) wire back to the rear junction block. Would it be smart to run a wire from the junction block ground at the rear of the trailer to the frame in order to make sure I do not over tax the 12 gauge ground wire? I know there are such things as ground loops, but I'm just worried about that 12 gauge ground wire being heavy enough to return power from the DC to DC charger and the taillights too.
2. I am planning on using 4 gauge tinned copper wire from the battery (+) to a 30 amp Blue Sea systems breaker. From there, more 4 AWG wire to a Blue Sea 12 circuit fuse block. I have seen several diagrams where people put in a 300 amp MIDI fuse, then a battery switch , than a 30 amp or more breaker, then the fuse panel. Is it necessary to have a big MIDI fuse, then a battery switch? Can I just go straight to the 30 amp breaker and also use that as a battery switch? It seemed like the breaker (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0055MV7AA) doubles as a switch, but I can understand if that is not ok.
3. After the fuse block, I've got 4 gauge (-) wire going to a bus bar with 4 gauge (-) going back to the battery through a Victron Smart Shunt. Should this ground bus bar have a wire that goes to the frame of the trailer? (Remember, I only have a 12 gauge wire going back to the 7 pin connector to starter battery negative.)
4. The Redarc DCDC charger has the 10 gauge 7 pin (+) wire coming into it. This wire is fused (40 amps) at the engine bay main fuse box. Does it need another fuse before it goes into the DCDC charger?
5. Do I use 4 gauge wire from the DCDC charger (+) to the battery (+)?
6. Do I use 4 gauge wire form the DCDC charger (-) to the bus bar (-)?
7. For the 160 watt solar panel, are 10 gauge wires heavy enough to run to the Redarc charge controller? I plan on using Anderson connectors to connect the solar panel.
8. Do I need a fuse and/or switch on the (+) cable from the solar panel?
Thank you for taking time to read this. I want to do it right to keep my family safe and keep from burning down all my hard work.

Now that I've got most of the hard work done, I'm looking at my design for the electrical system inside the trailer. It's getting down to crunch time as we want to go on vacation yet this year, so I don't have as much time as I would like to over-research everything. I've read several threads and feel like I'm close, but there are still several things I am not sure about.
I am wanting to pull power off the 7pin connector hot 12V to charge a LiTime 100 Ah battery in the rear of the trailer. I would put the battery in a tongue box, but I want the flexibility of being able to haul a dirtbike up front on a carrier. After researching a bunch, I am leaning towards using the Redarc BCDC1212S which is a 12 amp DC to DC battery charger with a 40 amp solar charge controller built in. I also thought about using either the Victron 12/12-9 or 12/12-18 DC to DC with a Victron MPPT 100/30 or 100/50 solar charge controller, but thought the 9 amp was too little and 18 amp too much for the 10ish gauge hot 12V wire from the truck. I currently only have a EcoFlow 160 W portable solar panel, but some day after the littles are grown, I may take off the rooftop tent and mount solar panels on the roof rack.
Anyway, I will only be powering a few interior and exterior LED lights, a Maxxair fan, and a small water pump for an external shower. I do not have need for an inverter, and the 12V Dometic fridge will be inside the truck, powered by an EcoFlow River 2 Pro. So I feel that 100 Ah LiFePO4 battery will be plenty and should last several days without charging.
So here is a sketch of my proposed electrical diagram. All of these items (battery, fuse block, DCDC charger, smart shunt) will be mounted in the rear galley area of the trailer.

I'm just a mechanical engineer, so I have enough electrical knowledge to be dangerous. I would very much appreciate if you experts could take a look at this and let me know what should be changed or done differently. Here are some of my questions:
1. I ran all my 7 pin trailer wiring in the frame (which was a pain!) back to a junction block at the rear of the trailer to wire my taillights. I ran a 10 gauge 12V hot wire (which gives 14.3V at the rear of the trailer with the truck running), but stupidly only ran a 12 gauge ground (-) wire from the 7 pin. Now, at the 7 pin juncture box mounted at the front of the trailer, I used a 12 gauge wire jumper on the ground wire to a bolt welded to the frame of the trailer to ground the trailer frame. I did not use the frame as a common ground for my tail and marker lights, but ran a 14 gauge ground (-) wire back to the rear junction block. Would it be smart to run a wire from the junction block ground at the rear of the trailer to the frame in order to make sure I do not over tax the 12 gauge ground wire? I know there are such things as ground loops, but I'm just worried about that 12 gauge ground wire being heavy enough to return power from the DC to DC charger and the taillights too.
2. I am planning on using 4 gauge tinned copper wire from the battery (+) to a 30 amp Blue Sea systems breaker. From there, more 4 AWG wire to a Blue Sea 12 circuit fuse block. I have seen several diagrams where people put in a 300 amp MIDI fuse, then a battery switch , than a 30 amp or more breaker, then the fuse panel. Is it necessary to have a big MIDI fuse, then a battery switch? Can I just go straight to the 30 amp breaker and also use that as a battery switch? It seemed like the breaker (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0055MV7AA) doubles as a switch, but I can understand if that is not ok.
3. After the fuse block, I've got 4 gauge (-) wire going to a bus bar with 4 gauge (-) going back to the battery through a Victron Smart Shunt. Should this ground bus bar have a wire that goes to the frame of the trailer? (Remember, I only have a 12 gauge wire going back to the 7 pin connector to starter battery negative.)
4. The Redarc DCDC charger has the 10 gauge 7 pin (+) wire coming into it. This wire is fused (40 amps) at the engine bay main fuse box. Does it need another fuse before it goes into the DCDC charger?
5. Do I use 4 gauge wire from the DCDC charger (+) to the battery (+)?
6. Do I use 4 gauge wire form the DCDC charger (-) to the bus bar (-)?
7. For the 160 watt solar panel, are 10 gauge wires heavy enough to run to the Redarc charge controller? I plan on using Anderson connectors to connect the solar panel.
8. Do I need a fuse and/or switch on the (+) cable from the solar panel?
Thank you for taking time to read this. I want to do it right to keep my family safe and keep from burning down all my hard work.