OK, now that you've clarified that you are looking for off-grid, a lot of your confusion can be fixed. A lot of your questions have different answers based on grid-tied or off-grid. The "inverter load panel" is simply the AC breaker box the AC Out of the inverter is going to. Since you are not getting power from the grid, it is your main breaker box that all of your household appliances are connected to. You should also have a smaller breaker box that is for your generator AC in to the inverter.
You'll also need a DC breaker box for the battery to inverter and solar charge controller breakers. Schneider calls those smaller breaker boxes their switch gear boxes. They have a separate one for AC and DC. Take a look at the last page of the install manual, it has a fairly nice diagram,
https://www.altestore.com/static/datafiles/Others/Conext-SW-120V-Installation-GuideRevG.pdf
Midnite Solar has a nice all in one box called the ePanel,
https://www.altestore.com/store/enc...steel-250a-for-conext-sw4024-inverter-p11289/ . They've also got some good schematics at the end of their manual,
https://www.altestore.com/static/datafiles/Others/ConextSW_EPanel_ManualV3.pdf