Question, how do I physically make this connection?
Google WEEB. I believe that will take you to approved grounding connectors for PV panels. WEEB are stainless steel connectors that have tiny spikes that puncture the surface of the PV frame and allow you to attach a ground wire.
There may be a special paste to put down before using the WEEB.
The spikes are protected from air after puncturing the surface of the aluminum frame.
Aluminum very quickly developes a thin oxide at its surface that prevents further corrosion of the aluminum. However, the aluminum oxide has relatively high resistance.
For lighting protection you want EXTREMELY LOW RESISTANCE.
I believe most building codes only require 8AWG or 10AWG ground wire. If you are in a lightning prone area I wouldn't use anything smaller than 2AWG. Commercial installations use #00 and #000 stranded copper wire.
The big wires would be on the PV array and PV equipment with multiple 8ft ground rods no more than 8ft apart around the PV array.
For the ground tie to the commercial power 8AWG or 10AWG would probably be fine. You want an easy direct path to earthground.
Lightning arrestors are additionally installed for further protection.
If your PV system is only a few hundred Watts proper lightning protection will cost more than your whole PV system, so at some point there has to be a cost-benefit analysis between meeting code and real lightning protection.
There is a lot to lightning protection. Its a huge topic beyond the scope of this forum.