I'm very sorry for your loss.
Not to rub any salt into any wounds but no one in my family died.
I had to work through the whole pandemic.
A few guys I worked with got sick, I can't recall anyone in the entire Ontario Div dying from Covid related sickness.
Perhaps its a medical system failure?
Going into this Covid thing Americans were less healthy and had less access to medical care than Canadians.
We spend a significant amount of GDP soent on basic medical care for all and I think that made the biggest difference in Covid outcomes
If you tried to spend what we spend and do it the same way we do it would mean a fundamental shift in how your government and medical systems work.
I don't think a majority of Americans would stand of it.
More taxes and fewer choices being the sticking point
I have been to an American Hospital but I hear they have valet parking?
Here a hospital visit is like going to factory.
Its in and out as fast as you can, push the numbers through the system to keep costs down...
That's not to say it s bad care.
If I get cancer OHIP's machinery will churn through hundreds of thousands of dollars to cure me of it even if its hopeless..
I could spend a Million on a walking corps.
But its fair, and its what the people here want.
And there are trust issues.
Canadians trust the government and the machinery of the state to do its job.
Your folks don't trust your government to do what is in your interest first.
Here is an interesting article from TIME on the subject
One outcome that should stick out Canadians live longer.
You cant fake that, so you need to ask why.
Canada has done a much better job than the U.S. on COVID-19.
time.com