Only way to flip over circuit board is to desolder the 2 marked connections , which i am afraid to do to not damage the board and yes the remote switch has a indicator light
OK, then, without knowing the exact circuit I would hazard a guess that one of the sets (i.e. Orange/White & Green/White) is connected to either side of the switch, the other set is powering an LED via the 78L05 voltage regulator and, because there appears to be tracks leading from Green/White to the voltage regulator, I am guessing Orange/White is the switch. You can confirm this with a multimeter if you have one.
So, assuming my guesswork is correct, you could snip off the wire (or solder on a parallel cable) and connect the Orange to NO on the BMV and Orange/White to COM on the BMV. This would then allow you to automatically switch off your inverter when a set state of charge is reached.
Note: It doesn't really matter whether you connect to NO or NC on the BMV because the relay is bi-stable, which means that you can set it to switch NO closed or NC open in the software (Connect App).
Be sure to read your BMV's manual with regards to the relay, it has lots of options.
The premise of my advice is thus:
