I think everybody's experience will be a little different based on your local climate and zoning and inspection requirements.
But generally speaking, I think the planning phase of a system is the most important. Anybody contemplating a PV system who doesn't have one doesn't really understand how they work. They can ask a lot of questions and gather information, but hands on is the best learning tool.
I work around these caveats:
Solar production will be the least in the winter in Northern Hemisphere due to shorter hours of sunlight and lower position of the sun. Decide then for heating if you will be using electric or gas or wood too and if you will need to add insulation to the structure and obtain a backup generator.
Solar production will be the greatest in May-June because there are long hours of daylight and this is generally before the most severe Summer heatwaves have arrived. July, August and September are the hottest months with heatwaves and this means demand for electricity is the highest to cool the residence and maybe run the pool pumps and filters. NOTE THAT THE TEMPERATURE ON THE SURFACE OF A SOLAR PANEL ACTUALLY REDUCES THE POWER OUTPUT OF THE PANEL AT THE SAME TIME YOU NEED THE MOST POWER AVAILABLE.
All solar panels have a label that will tell you the laboratory power output of the panel at 77 degrees, the ideal outdoor noon power output of the panel at 77 degrees and then other numbers that will tell you the power increase below 77 degrees and power decrease above 77 degrees. In my location, the surface temperature of my panels has been measured to be 148 degrees in the summer months resulting in a marked decrease in performance from the laboratory ideal maximum. also to note, you panels will not be making power just at noon and will almost never be directly facing the Sun in the best position. Panels now come with information telling you how much the power will increase or decrease with heat and cold. do the calculations. Panels also come with numbers about shade optimization. If you will get any shadows on the panels from a chimney, power line or pole, tree or anything else, shade resistant panels minimize the loss of power output which is very important.
Using a DC system of chargers and inverters and batteries is more efficient that using AC microinverters to then store power in DC batteries and then convert this back to useful AC power.
Try to avoid a proprietary solar system. For example (just an example, not to denigrate), suppose you install a Franklin Whole home battery inverter system and the company fails. This equipment will essentially be orphaned and finding repair parts and service persons will be very difficult. If you stick with the more name brand components that are the most familiar in your area, you will get better future service. Ask around. any company that just does one manufacturer's system only and offers nothing else is a red flag to me that they will not optimize your system needs and will be in and out as fast as they can to maximize profit.
Work with a design engineer and structural engineer if needed and then get system bids from local contractors if not sourcing the producting and hiring a helpful contractor / electrician to help with your project.
And there is more, maybe in another post.