Does a shipper like FedEx or UPS ship lithium to Hawaii?
You might want to contact one of the battery sellers directly. Or one of the companies that ship Victron nationally to see if "nationally" includes Hawaii. Maybe
@SignatureSolarJess (Signature Solar) or
@HighTechLab (Current Connected) can find a way to ship you some batteries to Hawaii.
You could also look into shipping from China. There are a few vendors on Aliexpress that some members like.
There are a lot of us that have gotten great customer service from Amy Wan at Luyuan Technologies on Alibaba. Amy is awesome and gave some of the best customer service I have gotten from any company including from the US.
I know shipping is a lot more for completed batteries as opposed to DIY battery kits, but she will be very upfront with you about what she can do (like shipping to Hawaii) and the cost to do so. You want to communicate with her by chat in her Alibaba webstore.
I hope one of these options can help you get what you need.
There has got to be some way to get a lithium battery to Hawaii!
As you are in a condo, I would lean towards LiFePO4 or LFP batteries rather than a deep cycle lead battery. LFP weigh a fraction of lead for the same amount of energy. They have no off-gassing which healthier for you. They can deliver a constant voltage over a much longer range so your inverter will run and appliances will better and happier. Oh, and they will last many times longer.