Just a thought exercise:
0. assuming AHJ buy-in, and they need site plans, designs, etc., which means architects/engineers/EE/electricians ...
- get property site plan finalized as much as possible, with all of the players
- coordinate with GC, to ensure their buy in (to temporary power arrangement)
1. you'll need onsite power (generator) for construction, and will want to transition that power to "backup" status:
- onsite fuel source (propane)
- a "utility" site/structure (integrated propane tank, utility shed, etc.) close enough to house to tie in
- factor in ground-mounted panel farm in the utility area siting, with overall site plan
2. onsite generator (EE sized):
- a liquid-cooled behemoth (propane), in the 20kw on up range; lower rpm, longer life, massive power, etc.
- must be automatic, must run for 1000's of hours with no problem, must be serviced/serviceable by someone
- will serve as temporary construction power
If you stop right here, there is any amount of construction power needed; genny has to run whenever power is needed. Serves as the "backup" component in the off-grid solar setup, so not "wasted".
3. inverter/charger/battery-bank, to meet EE's calc's of what's needed:
- a bank of linked magnum 4048 inverter/chargers
- battery "bank" of LiFePO4; possibly a bank of ampere time 24v or 48v batteries (highest ah available)
- a decent solar installer, if not the electrician (who is a solar installer)
4. car charging facilities:
- car vendor passes on details to EE, who sizes, ties in to the rest of the design
- a decent solar installer, if not the electrician (who is a solar installer)
If you stop here, still unlimited power; genny only runs to refill battery bank. Note that no power demand can be exceeded, because of the behemoth above (should turn on automatically when battery bank exceeded).
5. solar panel farm, mppt(s), (EE sized):
- add enough ground-mounted solar panels (site plan & utility site integrated, site permitting) to meet 50% to 90% or more of power, served by battery bank; tie in via mppt(s) ... I couldn't begin to calculate if the EE can hit 100%, but either they will, or genny makes it up.
- a decent solar installer, if not the electrician (who is a solar installer)
- genny makes up power not provided by panel farm; otherwise in standby mode for emergencies
Get an EE involved early, to design "everything" ... sizing of all components, inter-connections, even down to electrical panel layout (one or more 4x8 sheets of plywood worth). Coordinate with electricians to get buy-in before a body or a component shows up on site.
I'd still work hard to reduce all non-essential power loads, if they can be served by propane, etc., and if no inconvenience that you can't live with. But, with a behemoth of a generator, no power need that can't be met, by throwing more power at it (backed by propane); genny will just come on more often.
Hope this helps ...