I happen to also be installing the same GroWatt inverter in my off grid cabin and I have to agree that their documentation is lame and missing crucial information.
I just finally received some stud connectors that I was missing for the final wiring and during this waiting time I had to clarify the same exact questions yo are going thru now and as far as I can see you figured out the same answers I have:
- Generator input to Inverter: 240V, no neutral
- Inverter output: L1+L2+N to a split phase panel
The Neutral for AC output is only required IF your application is actually split phase. And because you bought this inverter I suspect you do have a split phase application.
No, each leg is NOT 240V as you stated, but instead 120V each leg with 240V between them. And each leg between a Neutral gives you the desired 120V.
I believe the above is correct regarding how to wire the inverter between the generator + house panel.
The other issue that I am facing is how to solve the grounding. Yes, I am also above a bedrock and I can't dig it 6 feet deep. Also, there is a chance that you will need only one place in your system where N+G bond. I can't advise on this because I am going thru it for the first time, but if you read some of my threads you'll find lots of response to the same questions you are asking.