If you want to follow the thread topic, and "Learn From My Mistake" then this is it:
The mistake is *starting out* with cells with unknown history, age, use or prior abuse, and just slapped together hoping that a "bms band-aid" will turn this collection into gold.
NOBODY (ok, maybe only 0.1%) specifically chooses and engineers these types of systems with NEW cells, and follows good manufacturing techniques. Instead, they spend money on tack-welders and soldering.
Heh, if Will found Sol-Ark's simply tack-welded haphazardly and soldered, he'd throw a fit! So should you.
Unfortunately, by starting out on the wrong foot with trash, any scientific or electrical engineering discussions about it, are now pseudo-science. At best, bordering on unsafe alchemy.