Then we had a freak electrical surge the day before Thanksgiving that fried its board. I ran to a big box store, picked up a cheap "regular" WH to get us through the holiday, installed it, and all was well.
Spooky! I've been involved with THREE Holiday HWH failures, they all happened on Thanksgiving. . . I helped my brother swap his the day before, I had one die the day after, and I helped my dad when his died the day after. In every case the whole fam damily was there.
That being said, I'd rather just have a bigger solar plant. IMNSHO, hot water heaters and clothes dryers are tough on demand, but in the grand scheme don't really use that much power, because you don't really run them all that much. Trying to tweak lower your power envelope kinda makes sense if your paying someone else, but once you CAPEX your solar plant to meet demand, I can't see the ROI of a more complex device. I flipped to the grid yesterday after a couple loads of laundry, the sun is refusing to shine, but I would have flipped even if the boss had not done three loads of clothes, so we are talking spending thousands for a couple of hours of power. OTOH, if it was critically important, I could have dumped the same money in a generator, and/or more batteries, and not flipped at all by simply deferring laundry, until solar production was better. My goal is to get my system up to the point where I don't have to deal with hyper-management of my power consumption.
At some point a HPHWH or HPDryer might be worth it, but the price needs to be 50% more not 5X more. Same argument with mini-splits. I have a fully ducted system with a 4T on the roof. I could spend $15K+ ripping all that out and putting in splits, but that would be dumb. If I was building new, I'm still not sure, there is a reason we starting putting central air in houses, and it was not because of efficiency. Instead, I would probably over-insulate, and get the most efficient standard split I could find.