Lot of good ideas tossed out. As others have said, I will just list;
1) As DerpsyDoodler suggests, It takes a long time to charge these cells at a low amperage. If you are using a benchtop power supply, the alligator leads are ridiculously inefficient. You will get some juice going by making some heavy gauge leads. Also, if you do the ring terminal and 10awg wire thing, I found it helps, in my case, to also use the alligator leads. They both work fine together. I suppose that's okay?
2) As 740GLE suggests, let it rest and see where it settles in. I would leave it on the charger as long as you can stand it, as long as it isn't getting all weird bulgy and heating up. See what voltage it will climb to, then let it settle in.
3) As Time2roll suggests, go forward with the top balance. Then build the battery with the suspect cell and see how it goes. When you get the BMS hooked up, you will figure out pretty fast if the suspect is going to roll over and play dead.
4) As Joanna_lannie says, If you are in the lower 48 States, getting extras will be quick and painless. Seems like Basen has tossed you to the curb.
5) IDK, maybe it's being to hopeful for that poor cell. Maybe we're just supplying you with a hit of hopium thinking that it will be okay. Personally never dealt with one of these LiFePO4's that hit a bottom voltage like that.