That's a lot of panels, and with ac you will need a lot of power, especially in AZ.
Go for the sol-ark 15k or eg4 18kpv. They should be able to run your stuff. And are easily expandable.
With 36kw of panels, you will exceed the 19kw of the 15k. 18kpv is similar. Overpaneling is ok. Maybe face some east, and some west so you have more hours of high production.
For off grid, I'm guessing you will need atleast 60kwh of batteries to last 3 rainy days, or whatever you get in AZ. Both inverters can easily expand. The eg4 powerpro is about 15kwh, but weighs 300 pounds. Rack batteries are 5kw each and weigh about 100 pounds. If you have ground floor install 300# is doable. Basement will require help. At a minimum, start with 15kwh, and add as you have funds available.
Whether you use all 36kw of panels is up to you, while on grid. Once you are off grid, you may need all of it to recharge 60+kwh of batteries in one day to last the next 3 days of poor production. If you are maxing put the inverter and need to use the excess production, then you can add a second inverter in parallel. Plan for that, and it will be easy upgrade.