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01: SBU is generally the preferred mode.
02: Set to 140A
03: APL
05: USE
06: Lfd
08: 240
09: 60
11: 30A, but you may need to set this one to 10A and increase it slowly depending on the quality of your generator power.
12: 51.2 - this is the highest setting.
13: 56.8 - cut AC charging when battery is very near full
14: SNU
15 - 17: your preference
19: 56.8V
20: 54.0V
21: 44-48V your preference
23: d1S
You have selected an inverter with an atypical AC charger. It is like a tank float valve - ON when it drops below a certain level and OFF when it rises to another level. It will ONLY charge when the battery voltage is below the voltage specified in setting 12. (51.2V) It will stop charging the instant the battery reaches the voltage in setting 13 (56.8V).
The generator I’m using doesn’t seem to move much more than .5 hz
That's likely going to be a problem. 0.5Hz is not great. Growatts are picky. Suggest you change setting 11 to 10A and slowly increase it until you hit the max it can handle, and it won't charge anymore. If the generator is portable, recommend you get it as level as possible.
I believe if you turn the inverter off and place in standby mode, it will charge via AC even at higher battery voltage, but I'm not certain.
Note that when charging via generator the generator is also powering all loads and the charger, i.e., if your loads + charger is greater than your generator output, it will overload the generator.