If you had top balanced up to 3.65v held it there until current dropped off and not much was going in (relative to how big your pack is) and then disconnected, over the course of several hours/days the cells will drift down to somewhere around 3.4vSo should I discharge them even lower? Bring them down to 3.4v??
They are currently sitting at 3.654v and not moving anymore.
I honestly dont know what is best for you to do in the situation you are in right now. My gut says discharging them further is not a good idea. I think dipping below the "knee" runs the risk of unevenly discharging cells and ruining the balance.
I would not argue with @ Supervstech on his recommendation, it seems perfectly reasonable. Get it put together and in service.