Guys I am very sorry i hadnt had time today to enter the forum and answer all your questions.
First of all this community is the best, Zapper told me to enable Off Grid mode, and that helped 100%. No more troubles the rest of the night last night and the rest of the day today. So that also answers the question to what happens if I switched to OFF the main gris breaker (it does exactly the same, goes to off grid/eps mode and works fine)
I think
@Markus_EG4 asked me if i have neutral, yes, since day one.
BUT as i have uploaded here before sometimes i charge my cars at 48amps, which is 11,000w so whenever i go over 12,000w i get grid assistance which is awesome.
Right now its working fine in off grid mode, but i couldn't go over 12,000w because it would switch to grid, since i dont have gris assistance anymore.
For a lot of people 12,000w is more than enough. If didnt have EV’s it would be enough for me too, but i have 4 EV’s usually one is charging everyday and we want to charge as much as possible when the sun is out, so I WANT grid assistance, better yet I NEED IT
Ill check all the other questions you guys have