Ok, so I'm an EE but my training is in microelectronics and satellites, so some of this stuff doesn't come naturally to me.
I get split-phase 120V/240V, but I thought 3 phase in the US was considered to be 208V, and assumed it was because of the 120° phase shift between the three lines. I guess I should read up on this...
I guess I'm a little bit skeptical that
@forbin actually has a 3 phase 240V well pump. Not many homes have 3-phase at all. It seems more likely that he has a 240V well pump, and the solution is much simpler than we are all making it.