Interesting! Glad to hear what you're doing with a similar setup. All the research I've been doing today and I swear I have more options on the plate now than when I started, but they've changed and are now more expensive options. The Chargery is on it again with some of the additional info I read from @Steve_S in other threads (not as much as I hoped as I've been reading a lot of threads today trying to make sense of more options than I realized), and what you've just added. The additional options Chargery is adding seem to be bringing them more in line with the RecBMS.
Otherwise, the main contenders are the TinyBMS, 123SmartBMS, and the RecBMS. Prices increase as you hit the end of that sentence/list. All three of them seem to have fairly advanced capabilities, so I'm not sure if anything would justify the higher cost options. This video on the RecBMS kept them on the list, despite the cost. Seeing your comments and running across the Chargery thread discussing the options and feature adds may have reversed that. Wondering if Chargery is going to update their display to something nicer like the RecBMS -- as it is, not sure it's worth adding.
The other factor that re-entered consideration due to BMS costs and overall layout/wiring complexity is whether to switch to putting the cells in a 2P16S formation instead of 16S2P. Losing the redundancy and cell-level insight are my main hold-ups on committing to that.
I'll have 2 separate 16s batteries with their own chargery connected to a common bus. I wanted to be able to power the entire system (up to 12 kW of draw) on a single battery if I needed to because either battery could become useless for so many reasons (including one of the chargery components failing). Since I live full-time in the RV and have no home, I want to build in some level of redundancy into it.