Perhaps I have not articulated well? Are we are talking about different ramp'y things? I'm talking in-rush/pre-charge from either direction. For example, when connected to the batteries, breaker off, no AC power, flip the breaker and it momentarily brings the batteries (30KWH rack full) to their knees, enough to cause problems with the inverter if you are running off the batteries. Other variations of order when connecting power cause similar sags, applying AC first with the current setting high, blah, blah. None of these are show stoppers IMNSHO, but mild annoyances you need to be aware of when using the device.
Based on the conversation this does not appear to be what we are talking about, since a few seconds of pre-charge delay to "ramp-up" output would not seem to be "too slow", since that time should be less than getting the genny cranked up and putting out. Are we talking about something else?