AHA!!!
Well it took some digging through TE's website but I found their version of the MC4 which is called Solarlok, and a little more digging to find their official pin extraction tool:
So I ordered that too and we'll see what work best.
Well there are a few different styles of MC4 terminals, the ones in most familiar with are the ones that have small metal wings that hold the terminal in place...
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forcibly pulling the terminal out causes damage to these wings as well as the connector housing itself.
If it works, it works, but it's interesting to figure out what the manufacturer had in mind for doing this "the right way".