Here is some information from HM tech support regarding grid profiles and operating in parallel with the Enphase system I've been testing. I let them know the results and that there appears to be no issues. In response, he told me how to edit the grid profile, so I can match it to Enphase!
"Hello Todd,
Thank you for all this valuable feedback.
In fact, since we have not performed official specific tests for the specific third-party inverters, we cannot promise full compatibility for related designs so we recommended for our on-grid solutions which will be more mature in this situation since we would also need to cooperate with various settings for other inverters.
Anyway since you have tried this solution with acceptable results, we will provide the information you need for you. Actually, for the drop slope under frequency settings, this value can be adjusted in the grid profile by editing and generating a new one (check the screenshot below, it can be edited between 16.7 to 100), attached you may also refer to this technical note for related applications.
As for the Wattnode meter, since we have no idea whether SolarEdge has some internal settings on their Wattnode meter, we would still recommend using it from CCS to ensure they have factory settings to be compatible with our system.
I hope this information helps with your installation.
PS: Since current applications could be an abnormal operation for our microinverters, in the case that any issues are caused by this application, I'm afraid we may not provide corresponding support or warranty claims related to the compatibility inquiries with these inverters, thank you for your understanding!"
I'm disappointed about the warranty statement, but I can understand that. You know, it's the same with solar panels. If you read the fine print on the warranty. When you mix solar panels from different manufacturers, it voids the warranty, yet people do it all the time.