400bird
Solar Wizard
I think you're creating unneeded problems for yourself.In my case my contactor is a 3 pole, so I disconnect L1,L2 , and N so I have nothing but ground connecting my off grid system to the grid. Everything I have shares the same ground and a single ground rod. So since the N is disconnected from the grid panel when in off grid mode I made the N-G bond in the off grid panel like I said. Slightly more complex I know but this way the inverter without a doubt is not capable of either drawing or pushing power to the grid.
Your house already has the one neutral ground bond, in the main panel.
Is your off grid panel ever connected to the grid pabel? For example, when the transfer relays inside the XW close? In that case, I believe you have both of your neutral ground bonds connected together.
You can't push power to the grid on neutral and ground. That's just a single (unmetered) wire coming from the utility. If the hot lines are open, it can't push power to the grid. No need to disconnect the neutral.