Sorry, I didn't see your latest post.
Yes. I did use16 leads from the BMS. I cut off the BMS connector on each battery and spliced on a 7-pin JST-SH connector.
I bought these and cut them in half:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07ZJJQ4XB
I put the female side on the battery and the male side on the BMS. That's the standard connector used for standard LiPo batteries, so it means you can charge these batteries with a standard LiPo/LiFe charger if you really want to.
I connected the first 7 wires from the BMS to the first battery, skipped the first balance connection on the second battery, since that's connected to the last balance lead on the first battery, skipped the first lead on the third battery, and connected the last three BMS leads to pins 2-5 on the third battery.
BTW, I finished top-balancing my first set today and did a capacity test. I charged my EV at around 70-80A (from the battery), and got 230 Ah out of the it. There's still some capacity remaining, but I'm very happy with that.